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My problem is not comfidence,or physical appearance (I'm not saying it cause I think I look good,I'm saying because women actually smile at me and give me that look) my problem however is going up to somebody I don't know and starting a convo,I just freeze up and my mind draws blank.
I have a crush, who chats back to me but I don't talk with her but chat. She responds slow because she is busy learning music and she stares at me sometime and I catch her. I am shorter than her. There is a always talking to my crush, my friends say the guy is already has a girlfriend. I am confused.
Being avoidant or fearing rejection usually stems from experience with many people including parents. Not popular in school? No one approaches you? People avoid *you* even if you put in effort? It's merely learning from experience that you're not wanted around so you don't bother and perhaps that first misstep is from parents, but not always. You can be accepted and loved by family, but then be bullied and outcast at school.
I'm pretty sure I will die single. Just because I'm weird af and I've noticed what people look for in a partner. First of all they will have to be able to introduce you to their family and friends. And if you're too different than a certain standard they will simply not have the courage to go for you. Because if you're family doesn't like your partner then you will feel rejected too. I come from a very collective society and people are just looking for a certain type of human being. Individuals and differences aren't that respected. So unfortunately weirdos like me have a harder time finding the right person. But it's fine, I love being alone.
Personally I don't believe I'm ugly , but also not supercute + nobody tells me I'm unattractive.
But I'm too shy when it comes to girls
I'm always afraid that I will get rejected by girls and then I make myself so rediculous.
Girls are so lucky that guys do always have to make the first step, in my case I have to hope the opposite will happen someday !
First impression last to most people. If Im being myself, Im intimidating and aloof. And if Im finally talking and meeting new people, I try my best to be actually friendly, find common ground or interests and try to be relatable but I come off as desperate and people will stop talking to me altogether fast. Lose-lose situation. If Im genuinely myself at meeting people, I will still be left alone cause I will hurt people's feeling right off the bat from being direct and sarcastic jokes, making more worse first impressions for being an asshole.
One thing this didn’t mention is age. It naturally takes a while to find someone so for young people who are single it’s probably not some inherent things about personalities or genes. Especially for people who want to avoid relationships that aren’t likely to work out in the long term, which narrows the options.
Patients taking Viagra are less likely to suffer a heart attack, new research claims.
Men taking the impotence drug were found to have a lower risk of having a heart attack or dying from heart failure than those not on the medication.
The findings mean Viagra could soon be used to treat hundreds of thousands of heart failure patients and even prevent fatal heart attacks, scientists say.
Experts from the University of Manchester studied 6,000 diabetic patients who had been given Viagra to treat erectile dysfunction.
The drug relaxes muscle cells in the blood vessels supplying the penis, allowing more blood to flow there.
This increased blood flow increases the likelihood of getting an erection.
Given the increasing reports of deaths in which the use of Viagra may be implicated, clinicians need to exercise caution when advising their patients with heart
Experts believe a key ingredient in Viagra called PDE5i, which relaxes blood vessels, also prevents damage to heart cells.
Heart failure is caused by the heart failing to pump enough blood around the body at the right pressure.
It most often occurs because the heart muscle has become too weak or stiff to work properly and is usually treated with medication which supports the heart.
Despite diabetics being prone to heart problems, the study participants did not suffer as many incidents as similar patients not on the drug.